What I’ve Learned
And what a weekend it was, filled with snow, cold weather, but best of all, making new friends and seeing some of my old ones. Now this was a typical retreat in the way that many people came together, enjoyed themselves and each other, and maybe learned a little something or two about themselves or their culture.
But it was atypical in that I took away something completely different. In the end, I temporarily didn’t care anymore for politics, the news, and to a lesser degree, sports. That feeling still partially remains even though I’m typing on a computer back in Philly. But the effect of that feeling will remain for quite some time.
Yes, as some cliche hunters might snuff out, I stepped away from my day-to-day life and realized how absolutely inconsequential things like the presidential election are or whatever else may grab my attention.
It’s one thing to know that something is taking over your life. It’s another thing to be removed from those distracting forces and feel a lot better off without them.
The natural question in your mind might be, ‘Hmm…will Shardule cut himself off from civilization?’ Obviously not. When I had free time once I got back to Philly, I browsed through my usual political and sports websites…and after paying an incredible amount of attention in the past few months…not having paid attention for two days seemed like a shell shock.
With each passing website I browsed through this afternoon, I felt as if I the clock began to run down on the momentary happiness that ‘removing myself from reality’ entailed. But I still felt it.
So I guess the best way to be on top of your game is just to play your game…(not a one-on-one game…that’s isolation…I’m talking about being in the game with your close family and friends)…and not worry about anyone else’s. You know, as in stopping the scoreboard checking.
p.s. I didn’t suck at skiing as much as I thought I would. I even accomplished my goal of hitting an advanced trail. (I went down one black diamond even though the only thing challenging about the course was the 70-degree-ish drop at the very end.)